Two days ago Lawrence called and asked for Nina's account. I emailed him the number and also took the opportunity to acknowledge him for being the wonderful dad that he is and Nina inheriting his best qualities which had her be as successful and independent a woman as she is. What came out of that was a conversation between father and daughter (he forwarded the email), that he got to acknowledge her for who she was and that she was responsible for her own success too, and Nina got to acknowledge her own dad for being so great. Truly terrific. A generative conversation.
I also got that having a mended relationship allows me the grace to be present in my relationship with Mike with a sense of freedom and calm. I feel blessed.
Today, I spoke with Deenie and acknowledged her for her listening and coaching. I also realized that Jeannifer is a natural coach and will have an enrollment conversation with her to take on coaching for Wisdom - it seems a pull for her, and that would work as a celebration for who she is as opposed to fighting with that strength. All good.
Swing dancing, acknowledged and celebrated my partners for their ability to learn, and be open to trying all those cool moves. Can't remember what anonymous good deeds I am creating. Is that still a homework assignment? Need to do those collages.
night.
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